Hi, everyone I know that everyone is aware of Ramey’s passing. What a beautiful day it was, and what a beautiful priveledge it was to be able to be there and to have time to have said good bye. Many people do not have those opportunities with their loved ones like we did. I just want everyone to know that God is still good, and he was and is good to Ramey. As Judah and I were talking today we have come to the conclusion that mom is actually not dead at all. As humans we have actually not seen Heaven so we put things in terms of what we see here on earth. So we refer to Ramey’s earthly body as being dead. That is correct. However the reality is that Ramey has walked from life directly into eternal life. If for 1 minute God opened the door to Heaven we would see right now that Ramey is actively alive, and praising the Jesus that she loved and proclaimed. Her voice has been restored, her vision has been restored, and her spirit lives on in Heaven even as I speak. As for Judah God gave him a dream 1 week ago today, and he came in the morning and woke me up. He told me that he was walking with mom and that she didn’t have any tumor, and that she was walking and didn’t need any help (like she did before the surgery), and that her hair was long like before she had it cut off before the first surgery as she was in her video clip. But I remembered him saying that it made him sad. It was very confusing for me because at the time I still thought that God’s intention was to heal her here on earth. As I found out beginning last wednesday that God’s plan was so much bigger and better than what we thought. More people will come back to Christ through her death than through any miraculous healing that she could have received. For we know that miracles are mostly rationlized away by people in such a medically and technologically advanced society as we have here in the US. God need to use Ramey’s death to force such a major shift in our thought process as to our need for God. So today as we discussed her death I asked him more specifically about his dream he said that an angel was walking with mom and that she was walking away from him towards God. He said that he walked with her half way but then he realized that she didn’t need any help and he walked back to the field and watched her walk to God. I told him that God gave him that dream because he wanted Judah to know for sure that his mother was with Jesus face to face. I just want to give God praise for helping to prepare Judah for this day. This was probably the hardest day of our life. Our prayer is that greater things are yet to come, and greater things are still to be done.
I would like to say that this website will be up until God tells me its time to change directions. I am sure that everyone is going to want to hear about how God is still using Ramey’s story to change lives.
In addition I would like to invite anyone that wants to come to her funeral service. Especially those who took care of her in various ways at the hospital. All my friends and co-workers over the years. Anyone that knows Ramey or had met her no matter how briefly and wants to have a better understanding of what she believed, and how that faith is available to all who ask. Please come, Please come!
Talk to you soon, and keep up your prayers,
John
John,
Thank you for taking the time on such a difficult day to communicate to others… others you don’t even know. I can only imagine what a blessed moment that was for Ramey to see her (our) Lord face to face. My heart aches for those here that will miss her, but you couldn’t have worded it better when saying “More people will come back to Christ through her death than through any miraculous healing that she could have received. For we know that miracles are mostly rationlized away by people in such a medically and technologically advanced society as we have here in the US. God need to use Ramey’s death to force such a major shift in our thought process as to our need for God” I am one of those people whose life has been forever changed by the process Ramey has gone through and the peace, the grace in which she dealt with it. She is singing and dancing like she never did here on earth. And amazingly, God finished her ministry here on earth in the same amount of years that He finished His very own Son’s ministry. Today Heaven welcomed one of the earth’s greatest. We will continue to pray for you all during this time.
Love,
Andrea
Believers are the only ones on earth blessed with the unique ability to mourn and rejoice at the same time. I mourn your incredible loss, yet rejoice with you in the absolute knowledge that she does indeed LIVE…much more alive today that she’s ever been before. My prayers are with you and Judah and Ramey’s family. May God continue to sustain you and grant you His peace during this time.
What further testimony to the wonderful, omniscient God we serve to prepare Judah in such a way with that dream so that he would better understand and accept such an event that we as adults often times cannot even understand and accept. Looking through the simple eyes and heart of a child at a picture of our loving Savior brings me more of a blessing than listening to a sermon from the greatest preacher on earth. Thank you for sharing that with us. Having two small children myself I have felt such a burden for Judah, although I have never met him, and I have been lifting him up in my prayers and will continue to pray for him during this very difficult time.
I just wanted you to know how much Ramey has impacted my life and the lives of people all over the country. Many who barely knew her through Liberty. Many who never met her at all.
Personally, Ramey has opened the door for me already twice today to talk about her faith in God and how her story has changed my life to two people that are hurt and searching for something meaningful in their lives. Pray that God will continue to work in their hearts and that God will give me the right words to say. Thank you sweet Ramey for the opportunity!!! I always admired Ramey for how she could just walk up and talk to anybody about God. Today, I felt her spirit gently pushing me to do likewise when before I would of stayed silent.
I shared Ramey’s story with my relatives on the other side of the country and they have been following Ramey’s story now as well. Other friends of mine have shared Ramey’s story with their relatives. The ripple goes on and on and on. Ramey’s story is creating opportunities everywhere I look to share my faith in God. All I have to do is point them to this website which breaks their hearts then leaves them wondering at such joy, peace and faith. That’s where the opportunity arises and I cannot help but speak about Ramey, her faith in God and how it has literally changed my life in unbelievable ways.
If only all of us could impact as many people in our lives as Ramey has done in so short a time. His timing is perfect John. I will continue to keep you updated on how God is working in the opportunities that Ramey has given me.
Love you all and see you Saturday.
John, Judah, parents and extended family of Ramey and John;
We continue to pray for each of you. We know that God has always had an amazing plan for Ramey’s life and so we continue to see His plan unfold. We grieve with you from our earthly perspective and we rejoice with you from our eternal perspective.
Blessings,
Garey and Susan Ford
John,
We were very saddened to learn of Ramey’s passing but confident in the belief that she is happy in heaven with the Lord.
Although we knew you more than Ramey, we knew in the few times we shared with her that she was happy, loving, funny, smart, and comfortable with who she was.
We pray for you, Judah, and all those touched by Ramey and her story.
You are in our thoughts,
Ted and Julie Lane
John,
I sit here and weep because of the immense outpouring of God’s grace in your life during this time. What servants you and Ramey have been for the cause of the gospel of Jesus. In our weakness He is truly made strong. Ramey laid down her life for the glory of the name that is above every name and He has been glorified! Because of her witness many will join her in heaven. Words cannot express what an encouragement you have been in the midst of this trial. Ramey is not lost, she is found in the eternal glorious presence of the heavenly Father who has been excitedly preparing for her arrival! He and the Lord Jesus could not wait another day to have her home! In Psalm 116:15 it says, “Precious in the sight of the Lord is the death of His saints.” We will be praying for you and for Judah in the weeks and months to come. That He would quiet you with His love, strengthen you by His Spirit and guide you by His word.
Just as sure as grass is green, Ramey is having a blast with our Heavenly Father right now.
John, I am awestruck by your faith and determination to glorify God in all things. Judah, please know that your mother is with you morning, noon and night.
Let us praise God, even through our tears.
Peace to all who loved her…
John, the tears are so many I don’t have any words so I just want you to know I love you, brother.
Matthew Connor
494-3264
connah@gmail.com
John,
I saw the miracle today.
It was in that room with all of you.
Seeing the King come take his daughter Home.
Kayla
John,
What wisdom. You have said it so well. A miraculous healing would have gotten lost in this unbelieving world, explained away. God has desired to have Ramey with Him now, and so she is.
Ramey has lived more for Christ in her 33 years than most do in an entire lifetime. She has stepped straight into eternity where the angels rejoiced over her long awaited arrival. And she has already heard, “Well done my good and faithful servant!” and now sees her glorious God with perfect vision.
Judah’s dream will stay with me always. God is so amazing. What a beautiful image to keep in my mind. I will miss sweet Ramey but will see her again. I am so glad that she crossed my path and touched my life as she did for so many others.
I am looking forward to Saturday. I have never said that about a funeral but his one is different and I know there will be great rejoicing.
I know God will bless you and Judah, Kathy, Terry and Shayna with His comfort and love as you continue your walk of faith.
Peace and love in our Lord Jesus.
It is precious to me that God gave these words to you, especially today in the midst of great triumph and great pain. We are praying for you…without ceasing.
John,
When I heard the news today, I was heart broken. I couldn’t stop thing about Ramey, Judah and you all day. I have cried several times today, but I know that Ramey is in a better place. You guys have always been an inspiration to us. I know God has great plans for you and Judah here on earth. Our prayers are still with you. We will see you Saturday.
We love ya, Bobby and Kristie
John & Family-
We are so sorry to hear of your loss of Ramey. She will never be forgotten, what an amazing person she was!
We will see you on Saturday
Love~
Melanie & Justin
The light and singing in Heaven may be a little brighter and better tomorrow, but here it will seem just a little more dim. John, we celebrate her life and faith with you, and we too will miss her. All out love and prayers for you and Judah, and that the Lord will use this passing of one of his children to further his kingdom.
Rusty and Ellen Myers
My heart weighs heavy today from the news of Ramey. However, I do rejoice that she did receive the ultimate healing and is now SINGING and DANCING through the streets of heaven!!! It gives me great peace to know this. John, the strength that is portrayed in your blog today is proof that God is working. My prayers are with you, Judah and the Harders tonight. God Bless.
I was listening to her songs on my space and praying for her and the family at 12.45 to 1:00 today. I received the phone call 20 minutes later.
She is singing of waiting for the day and the glorious feeling of going to heaven and seeing God. Happy will I be when my Savior comes for me. Jesus I will see, his arms outstreached to me. All those tears I cried, He will wipe from my eyes. She is there, she is happy.
I will continue to pray for your family. I am so thankful for Judah’s dream – he will always have that to hold onto. God cared so much for him that He took the time to give Judah a special memory of seeing his mother healthy and whole again.
May God continue to bless you and give you the strength you have so shared with us.
Ramey’s voice from heaven:
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John & Family-
I am so sorry to hear of your loss. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Dave Tharp
Precious Brother John….my how the Lord has shined through you all along this incredible journey….and His Light upon Ramey was ever so brilliant. I cherish the time I spent with her the day she came over and we made kombucha together. And……Bless that little Judah’s heart…..the Lord is so good…..the dream He gave him touched me deeply..and I’m sure has touched many others as well……His mercy endures forever and ever. Much love to you, Judah and all the family. -Rhonda and Gary Aydlett
John, Judah, Terry, Kathy & Shayna,
I am sitting here reading your latest update, John, as well as all the comments from your friends, with tears streaming down my face…..my heart goes out to all of you, we will miss Ramey but also are somewhat envious that she lives in heaven before us & gets to see Jesus before we do….while our hearts ache, we know that God is in control & makes no mistakes….we are saddened that we will not be able to be with you in South Carolina at this time, as we are on a business trip in Florida, but nonetheless we are there with you in spirit, praying for all of you……much love, Carol Sargeant
John,
I am so saddened to hear of Ramey’s passing today. Though I have never met Ramey or your family, I still feel a terrible loss. I have heard wonderful stories of your special family thru her friend Candice and I regret that I never had a chance to meet her personally.
Your family and Ramey’s story has touched my heart like so many others who have visited this site over the past few weeks. The faith and courage everyone has shown thru these trying months is a real testament to the wonderful people that love your family and Ramey.
Though she is now gone from this worldy plain, her story and message will continue on.
We will never understand God’s will but must accept that his plan has and always will be the right one.
I believe her illness has opened the door for so many people to once again be open to God’s message.
What an incredible gift she has given to all of us.
My deepest condolensces to you and your family.
My thoughts and prayers are with all of you.
john and family,
i had the joy of being ramey’s neighbor and friend
i found a card that explained ramey
one heart dedicated to God
can bring light to the world
and she did
vicky
John, I met you many moons ago at Grace EV Free where I also met Ramey. I still attend Grace and heard of Ramey’s surgery and blog and have been following over the last month.
I cannot tell you how heavy my heart is right now for your’s and Judah’s loss. I am blow away by the amazing testimony of Ramey’s life and how like a pebble thrown into a pond, her witness will ripple on and on proclaiming the glory of Christ.
There is a song that Ramey used to sing at Grace that every time I hear it, I hear Ramey’s voice in my mind. I always call it “Ramey’s song”. I will never not think of her and her magical voice that was always full of passion and devotion to Christ.
Some of the lyrics are:
“Be glad in the Lord and rejoice you righteous ones, and shout with the joy , that he gives his righteous ones, how blessed is he whose heart is set free, in the faithful forgiveness of Christ.”
I will continue to pray for your family and her family that God would restore your joy and grant you the peace to move forward one moment at a time.
Thank you for sharing Judah’s dream, it has blessed me tremendously.
John and family,
As a nurse at MedU I had the pleasure of caring for your Ramey. Though she never spoke a word to me, her spirit touched me in ways I cannot describe! I am one of those miracles your wrote of, I was on the cusp of …Do I believe? Do I not? I can say now that I Do believe. The faith that you and your family have is inspirational, wonderful, and has renewed my faith and inspired me to continue my growth as a Christian.
I mourn for your loss of Ramey’s earthly body, but have renewed faith that her spirit lives on and on and that you and Judah and the rest of us whom she has touched have an angel to protect us through the rest of our time here on earth until we meet again in heaven.
Thank you for your inspiration, I will see you on Saturday as we celebrate her life!
Cathy Mulloy, RN
When I first about Ramey’s illness several months ago, I watched and read the interview on Charleston.net. The song she sang, “Hosanna” continues to be a blessing to me. I want our church to learn that song and sing it to God as Ramey did.
My daughter will be attending Liberty University in the fall. I have had such a hard time letting my “baby” go away from home. When I read all these comments from people who attended Liberty, I know God is saying to me, “Let her go, I have only the best ahead for her”
May God Bless all of you in this time of grief. God can give comfort like nobody else can!
John,
I am so sorry for your loss. Thank you for sharing Judah’s story. I am so thankful he was given that glimpse of hope, and though it was meant for a child, it is a comfort to me as well. Doug and I have been and will continue to pray for you, Judah and Ramey’s family. Please let us know if there’s ANYTHING we can do to help.
Love,
Mary
Dear Sweet Family,
Please know we are rejoicing with you – for your wife, your daughter, your sister, Judah, your mom, your friend has made it Home. I’m sure that some days the loss will be like nothing you have ever known, but remember God is Good and He is faithful, and we have the precious hope that probably sooner than we can imagine, we will see Ramey again, whole and well along with our Precious Jesus. You are in our constant prayers.
The Barretts
John, Judah, Terry, Kathy, & Shayna,
My heart is saddened & aches for all of you, as I sit here reading all these comments with tears streaming down my face….I am envious that Ramey gets to experience heaven before me & heaven is surely one livelier place tonight with Ramey’s presence…..I truly loved your dearest Ramey & although our hearts are all breaking, we also know that God makes no mistakes…we are unable to come to South Carolina at this time, but be assured of our prayers & that our spirits are united with all of you….lovingly, Carol Sargeant
I am saddened to hear that today Ramey Reeves passing left a void in so many lives who will greatly miss her. It has been inspirational to everyone the way the Reeves family put Ramey at peace, and suurounded her with so much love as she prepared to take her place in heaven. My thoughts and prayers are with John, Judah, and the entire extended family.
Love, Charlie Missel
John,
We are very sad to hear of Ramey’s passing. Our thoughts and continued prayers go out to you and your family. Our girls (ages 8 & 11) have included all of you in their nightly prayers since the beginning of Ramey’s journey. We let them know today that God has taken her to be with him. They were sad because we were sad but quickly reminded us that “she’s with God now and any pain and sadness should be gone”.
She is the lucky one. It is all of her friends, and loved ones she leaves behind who will have to wait to see what she gets to experience now. God always has a plan. We pray that God will leave peace in you heart and comfort you in the days to come.
Words can not express, how I feel right now for you (John) and your precious family. God is so good to each of us even in death. What a blessing for precious Ramey, to close her eyes here on earth and open them at the throne of our precious Savior. I can see Ramey singing her praises to our almighty King, WOW, what a thought! My prayers are with you, Judah, and family, we will continue to ask Jesus for his almighty strength in this difficult time. Ramey’s live has been a blessing to me and I will never forget her precious smile and sweet spirit. But, I know that one sweet day, we will all sit around the throne and worship with Jesus, and see precious Ramey again.
Thank you for sharing Judah’s dream. It was a blessing for me to know that God had showed him where is “Mommy” was going and is now.
Please know that if I am able to come I would love to be at the service on Saturday. But, if I am not, please know that you are in our prayers and thoughts.
With Love,
Tara Gowen
John-
We can’t tell you enough how much we love and care for you and Judah. We are blessed to have known Ramey. I still can’t believe that it was SO long ago that we all met. Remember when were squished in your little hatchback, on our merry little way to Myrtle Beach?! Oh my… I am giggling now. Sunshine & I were smashed in the backseat, surrounded by luggage, and Ramey sat in front, so much leg room with just her leather handbag at her feet…
I praise our Heavenly Father for Ramey. She (along with those other gals from the Yeardley House) challenged me, encouraged me, and most of all, REMINDED me of God’s goodness, the power of His Word, and the freedom to worship, whether I could sing or not.
God is doing great things, even now. I am praying that the service on Saturday is busting at the seams and that lives would be forever changed…. that souls would come to know the Savior that Ramey sang about, professed of, and loved all her life here on earth.
She is seeing Jesus face to face… that is so amazing.
love you so much.
-Flo (on behalf of the Putneys)
Hi John,
Greg and I are always across the street for anything you and Judah might need. Ramey will forever have the gift of sparking a smile in others.
Emily & Greg
My prays are with all of you. It has been many years since I have seen Ramey, but I remember her loving spirit and will never forget her faith and her beautiful voice.
<3 forever, Ramey. Your sweet smile will be missed.
To John, Judah, and The Harders: My love and prayers are with you all! I pray that everyone who knew Ramey and has heard her story or watched the video is moved, as I am, to live more boldly for Christ every day!
God’s peace upon all friends of Ramey,
- Karla
While I am so sad, I just keep reminding myself that Ramey is with the Lord and they are jamming out, singing and dancing and Ramey is probably trying to see if he’ll consider a mohawk mullet hair cut!!!
What a mentor she was to me. Seeing Ramey’s passion for Christ, changed my prayers to the Lord. I began to pray and still pray that the Lord give me that kind of faith, that passion, that confidence in my relationship with Him. That “unshakeable faith” of Ramey’s ignited that desire in me to draw myself closer to God. I know that if I could see Ramey now and tell her that, she would say with an amazing amount praise and thankfullness – “Thank you God for using me in this way!” What an amazing testimony!!! I will miss her greatly!!!
Thank you Lord, for crossing my path with Ramey. Thank you for using her to shine Your light so brightly and that I got the chance to see that light. May that light continue to shine bright through her memorial and draw myself and others closer to You.
John, Judah and family – I pray the Lord bless and keep you in His sanctuary giving you peace and rest in Him.
Psalm 27:4-5
One thing I ask of the LORD, this is what I seek: that I may dwell in the house of the LORD all the days of my life, to gaze upon the beauty of the LORD and to seek him in his temple. For in the day of trouble he will keep me safe in his dwelling; he will hide me in the shelter of his tabernacle and set me high upon a rock.
Psalm 30:5
Weeping may remain for a night, but rejoicing comes in the morning.
Love in Christ,
Heidi
hello john,
i personally did nt know ramey or you .but my aunt helen kendall knew cathy. i send caring thoughts as i really dont know what you are going through but i can try to understand.
if you would like to talk justcall me at 16156552472.or email me at jknight10160@yahoo.com.i am praying hard for you and the family .ramey really inspired me to go on with my lifeas she did hers .
IN JESUS NAME
JESSIE KNIGHT
John my heart felt prayers go out to you and your family during this difficult time. Your ability to keep things in perspective continously focusing on the will of God in lieu of selfishness as most of us probably would have been, has just been asolutely remarkable. It has been said that God only picks the beautiful flowers for display in his heavenly garden, and I am certain that Ramey will be such a radiant and evervescent addition to his collection.
The times ahead will be difficult and challenging for you, Judah and others, but if each of you continue to focus on Proverbs 3:5- Trust in the Lord with all thy heart and lean not to thine own understanding, in all thy ways acknowledge him and he shall direct thy path-I am certain that he will strentghen and comfort you all in the bosum of his greatness.
John good blessings to you and yours today and always, LT.
John, Judah, and the Harder family,
I am so grieved by your loss and I know that losing Ramey is so overwhelming right now, but I’m so excited for her. She is with God right now rejoicing. I can’t help but think that heaven just gained a fabulous singer. I want you to know that I was awake last night for 4 hours in the night and was so pressed to pray for all of you. I knew that today would be rough and God wouldn’t let me sleep until I had spent time lifting you in prayer. I pray that you felt those prayers and a peace today, despite the circumstances of grief.
Amy and I spent several hours tonight going through old photos of Ramey and reliving so many great memories from high school and college. I’ve never known anyone in my life that was more full of energy and a love for the Lord. Ramey never feared sharing her faith and was bold in everything that she did. I’m so thankful to have known her as a friend and to have so many powerful memories of her faithfulness to the Lord. Thankfully, I have many great videos and pictures to remind me of her joy and I can’t wait to see her again in heaven. Someday, Amy, Ramey, and I will get a chance to sing some of our famous high school trios again.
John, your final entry here has so touched me and I appreciate your willingness to be so open and to share what God has done in your life. Thank you for blessing us.
Laurie “Captain” Rice
Hi John, Judah, Family, and Friends,
My name is Lisa and I am one of the many ICU nurses that took care of Ramey during her stay at MUSC. I speak for us all when I say how much she touched us, we all loved taking care of her and we all had a taste of her soul when family and friends were around. At times she was awake and could communicate to us, usually with a squeeze of her hand or raising her brows. I will never forget her saying “Ok” to me when I told her I was going to do her make-up and nails. And boy, did she look beautiful! I do believe she will bring more people to our Lord Jesus Christ. My husband and I have even stated we would like to get even more serious about worship just this afternoon.
God Bless you John and Judah, family, and friends of Ramey. She was so special.
In Christ,
Lisa D, RN
Chris and I want to say that we’re sorry, but sorry doesn’t seem to be fitting for Ramey. We’re not sorry that she is now with our God, our awesome and incredible God. We’re thankful and so blessed to have known her. Although my husband and his family knew of Ramey well, I only actually met her once, but from what has been published about her, broadcasted of her, and what has been blogged about her, I know that she was a remarkable person! Our hearts go out to you and your son! How hard, how difficult, this time must seem as this very moment, but how brave and strong are you two to be able to see this from a positive perspective and light in such tragedy-the passing that is-the fact that you can’t hold her, touch her, be with her, but only to know that she is with you in spirit! You have been so strong in this that sadness is not a word I would use to describe your loss, but inspirational. I took a moment and thought about Ramey, intently tonight-how she was this wonderful person, a beam of life…just a few days ago (in comparison) another friend of mine passed away…so loving, so caring, so compassionate, and friendly-and God took him away too. One can look at a situation like this and say that God took the wrong person, all the while leaving the hateful, deceitful, and wretched here on Earth for us to mingle with, but the person that looks at the glass half full would think to themselves, “God took the right one-the one he wanted, the one that had DONE their part here on Earth, the holy, the pure, and the untainted.” God still has a lot of work to do on the rest of us-the remaining, but these two can claim their lives “victorious”-to which we must strive each day to aspire to be like. How awesome is God-the God that can give life and in the very next instant, take that life away-I think it’s really something we must all consider, and in God’s most heavenly, precious name, I hope we ALL do, for what a day that will be, when we will all see each other on the streets of gold!!!!!
John,
It’s Bethany’s Mom. Words can not express what I am feeling right now for all of you. It is very late as I write this and given the circumstance, if I do not make sense, please forgive me. This has been a tremendous journey for all of you and its not over, it’s merely a new chapter. Your amazing grace and dignity in allowing us to walk this journey with you and the family during this most difficult time has been awe inspiring to say the least.
I remember in the beginning praying for the miracle to heal her body of this horrible disease. Then as time went on and her condition did not improve, I prayed for His insight into all of this. I remember telling Bethany in the beginning that Ramey needed to be healed in order for the miracle to be told, the miracle of her healing. Again, I was wrong as I am about so many things. During these last few days. the revelation came to me…………..this was never about her being healed. The miracle has, is and always will be about Him, our Lord Jesus. Many lives have been touched during this journey that you all have shared with us and many more will change in the days, weeks, months and years to come. What an inspiration Ramey and all of you have been to us and the next chapter in this journey will surely bring miracles beyond even Ramey’s expectations. Evertyone of us who came to know her in whatever capacity it was, was truly blessed. There was a burning light we know to be The Holy Spirit within her and it radiated to all she came in contact with. How lucky she was in this life but more now that she has gone home. She is certainly The Lord’s Angel now and will have a much larger impact in her death I think as yes, a healing would have looked to be scientific rather than miraculous in nature. I know that those in the room with Ramey today during her last moments on earth were deeply touched by what they witnessed. I know that the time has come for us to lift up the baton that she carried and march it to victory. How lucky we all were for having known her.
My love, warm thoughts and best wishes to you, Judah, Kathy, Terry, Shanna, your family and all of the many friends…….How blessed you all are!
And to Ramey…….well done thy good and faithful servant!
John-
My sincere condolences. You don’t know me, and neither did Ramey. I happened across this blog some time back and became a fan, checking each day to see the progress Ramey was making. It truly sadden me this morning to learn of her passing. It’s obvious she touched many people and the loss of her will be something difficult to overcome. But time heals all wounds. The memories we have last a lifetime. Share those memories so the story lives on….May you and your family be comforted
We went to see Ramey yesturday about 2pm and a really nice RN told us that she had passed away. doug and i were able to sit down with willa and abbott at home and talk about ramey. Abbott told us that God called Mrs. Ramey home because He needed her help in Heaven. He also said that now Mrs. Ramey can Fly with the Angels and teach them her songs. Willa said that God answered her prayers and has healed Mrs. Ramey in heaven. She also said now Mrs. Ramey can see our new baby Eva when ever she wants.
we love you guys lots and are praying for you all.
ramey
Dear John & Judah,
I don’t know you personally, but heard of Ramey and your family through Sarah Whitmore, who asked for prayer for all of you this past Sunday morning. I am so saddened by your loss, but do rejoice in knowing that Ramey is forever healed!
Judah, how wonderful to have been blessed by such a special dream from God. It reminds me so much of the dreams God blessed various people in the Bible with. Thank you so much for sharing this. Just reading about it helped me to see the awesome loving power of God.
John and Judah, I prayed yesterday that God would give you both a peace beyond understanding. Based on your blog entry, it appears God is actively at work. What a wonderful witness you are. I continue to pray that you will sense God’s peace in the days, weeks, and months to come.
With love & prayers,
Lauren
We know that Ramey has joined the “great cloud of witnesses surrounding us”. (Hebrews 12:1)
To Ramey’s Family: I believe this Scripture epitomizes you:
“For God is not unjust so as to forget your work and the love which you have shown toward His name, in having ministered and in still ministering to the saints.” (Hebrews 6:10) Thank you for being so faith-filled that God would choose you and Ramey for this indescribable trial. He knew you would point to our Lord Jesus every step of the way.
I said to the Lord today, “I know Ramey is singing her heart out before You and it must be the sweetest song You’ve ever heard!”. I know one of the things that Ramey might say to Him: “I count it such a privilege to stand in Your Presence at the same age as my Brother, Jesus.”
I love you all.
Dearest John,
Your family has touched my life in so many ways. I first heard of Ramey’s illness and journey from your dad. Your father is a wonderful person and must have felt I needed a new direction in my life. I have been inspired by you, your family, Ramey and her family. Yesterday when I read that Ramey had passed I was devastated (even though I had never met her). You all have renewed my faith and belief in God. You are truly a remarkable person for in the face of this most difficult time your faith has been unfaltering. I will continue to pray for you and your family. Please give your mom and dad a hug for me. I want to thank you for allowing me (everyone) to share in Ramey’s journey; because of this I will continue to thrive to be a better servant to God. Ramey changed my life and didn’t even know me. I grieve with you for your loss but also rejoice for Ramey for her homecoming.
God Bless you and Judah, your family, Ramey’s family, and your wonderul friends.
Debbie
John,
Please know that you and Judah and all of your families are in my thoughts in prayers through the days to come. You and Ramey have been such an encouragement and testimony to so many people. I struggled last night finding peace because I couldn’t understand why God didn’t just restore Ramey as so many of us were praying. I know He can and I just struggled, but as I lay awake for hours in bed last night crying and reading scriptures, God gave me peace. I know now that this was His plan and I trust that many will come to know Him through your story! Thank you for loving Ramey the way Christ commanded us to love one another and being a true testimony of that daily especially during such a tough time. I will miss Ramey and always remember her, but what makes me so happy today is that I keep hearing Ramey singing. She is singing with the angels! BETTER IS ONE DAY IN YOUR COURTS THAN THOUSANDS ELSEWHERE!
Becky
John, Judah, Kathy, Terry & Shayna,
As anyone I’ve talked to can tell you, it’s hard to read these blogs without shedding tears. What an impact Ramey has left on so many, many lives and what a joy it is to think of the Lord God saying to Ramey “Well done good and faithful servant”. She has affected people’s lives who never even had the blessing of meeting her so imagine just how many more will be reached because of her, because of her experience and because of the “unshakable faith” she had. It is with a very heavy heart that I say good-bye to Ramey yet I am comforted with a peace that supasses all understanding knowing that she wouldn’t want to be anywhere else than where she is right now. Your family has been a strong inspiration in faith and God’s love and ultimate peace. You are in so many restless thoughts, so many fervent prayers and are loved by so many people.
Charity
Dear John, Judah and Family,
I wanted to share with you my first experience with Ramey. Guillermo and I were praying before our meal at a restaurant and after we got done this beautiful lady comes to our table just glowing with excitement. She introduced herself and told us how excited she got when she saw people praying to Jesus. She went on and on about how awesome Jesus was. She was so excited to introduce us to her son and that’s when I realized that I knew her husband! Although I only was around Ramey 2 short times- her life is a complete inspiration. When I think about how I want to live my life – I think of Ramey. More than anyone I’ve ever met, her love for Jesus and life literally radiated out of her. How blessed we all are to have been able to know in some way such an amazing person. Sarge- like a stone hitting a still pond-I believe you will see the ripple effect that her life had on this world for a long time. You, Judah and your family and friends are in our prayers.
Courtney, Guillermo & Judah Soler.
My heart is aching for you an your son . My 26 yr old daughter has been fighting astrocytoma grade 3 since Feb. 07. May God continue to bless you. I honestly feel your strenght in God . I just hope and pray that God continues to strenghthen you .
Thank You Lord, for your gift of Salvation! Ramey is standing in Glory at the feet of Jesus. She has seen the Lord. She is whole, and complete in the One who redeemed her and called her by name. She has heard the words, “Well Done, my good and faithful servant” “My heart rejoices that she will never feel sorrow or pain again. May the God of comfort hold you and bring you peace. You are all in our prayers.
We love you,
Kevin & Laura
I don’t know if embedding this video in a comment will work, so I’m sorry if it’s a jumbled mess….but this song is such an ispiration to me through this time. I have listened to it a thousand times in the last few weeks. It’s so powerful and uplifting.
Ramey will be so missed. My heart aches to be so far away. But I know she is free now, to dance and sing and praise Jesus. She is one of the most real, inspiring people I’ve had the priveledge of knowing. I thank the Lord that I had the chance to know her in this short life on earth, and that I will be able to praise Jesus with her in eternity.
Although my heart hurts, I am really rejoicing.
John, Judah and the rest of the family, I praise the Lord for your faith and strength and testimony. You are all amazing. You are all in my prayers. I pray that God will comfort you in this time and you will continue to feel peace and joy in knowing that it’s only a matter of time. I have no doubt that you already do.
Thanks for sharing Ramey’s journey so people like me, a couple thousand miles away, could be a part of it.
In Christ alone my hope is found, He is my light, my strength, my song
This Cornerstone, this solid Ground, firm through the fiercest drought and storm
What heights of love, what depths of peace, when fears are stilled, when strivings cease
My Comforter, my All in All, here in the love of Christ I stand
In Christ alone, who took on flesh, fullness of God in helpless babe
This Gift of love and righteousness, scorned by the ones He came to save
‘Til on that cross as Jesus died, the wrath of God was satisfied
For every sin on Him was laid, here in the death of Christ I live
There in the ground His body lay, light of the world by darkness slain
Then bursting forth in glorious Day, up from the grave He rose again
And as He stands in victory, sin’s curse has lost its grip on me
For I am His and He is mine, bought with the precious blood of Christ
On Christ the solid Rock I stand,
All other ground is sinking sand
On Christ the solid Rock I stand,
All other ground is sinking sand
No guilt in life, no fear in death, this is the power of Christ in me
From life’s first cry to final breath, Jesus commands my destiny
No power of hell, no scheme of man, can ever pluck me from His hand
‘Til he returns or calls me home, here in the power of Christ I’ll stand
If embedding it below doesn’t work you can go here to listen to it on GodTube.
http://www.godtube.com/view_video?viewkey=67526786fe0444acf467
How incredibly gracious of God to give Judah such a beautiful dream. That God would be so personal to that little boy is beyond belief. I marvel at the strength He’s given you John to write such beautiful things. Surely your family has been given a measure of peace and grace that none of us could ever understand save we experienced the same loss.
How good is our God? How wonderful are His promises to us? How vast is His care of us? No amount of knowledge or comprehension on this side can explain the great love He has for us. His ways are so much higher. His thoughts are so much deeper. His plans are so much better than our feeble attempts.
I can see Ramey singing and dancing for the Lord just now. She is full of more happiness now than any of us ever witnessed in her on this earth. Her joy is now complete.
The Lord giveth and the Lord taketh away. Blessed be the name of the Lord!
May God sustain you, Judah, Kathy, Terry and Shayna in the days ahead. They won’t be easy, but God promises to be with you every step of the way. His shoulders are broad and His arms, strong. He IS enough.
With all the love we can give,
Chris and Kristi Jennings
Lynchburg, VA
I didn’t personally know her but through the updates and blog site I feel like I did! I bet she was an amazing person to be around and it breaks my heart that she is gone…but at the same time I’m excited for Ramey cause now is not living as in the presence of the Lord…she actually is in the presence of the Lord! I cried a little and thought back to the days of helping my little cousin go through this! I bet Ramey and Katie are in heaven both glad that the struggle with brain tumors is over!!!!
Dear John , Judah and family,
I am so sorry for your loss of the most beautiful woman in your life. I don’t know where to begin or what to say, but that she is pain free and walking on the streets of gold with our Savior. I know that your pain will get easier in time because we all can rest in the fact that Ramey is in heaven and singing with the angels. One of my favorite church hymns is “It Is Well, With My Soul”. Ramey is at Peace and we that believe and trust Christ as our Savior will see her again one day.
With Sincere Sympathy and Love,
Ted & Annette Miciura
John & Judah,
Our prayers for comfort are with you. Even though it brings us to tears, we rejoice for Ramey and know she is waiting for us to join her in paradise.
Love,
James, Bridgit, & William
John,
We are praying for you and Judah, and praying that all will recognize the glory that God has received, and will continue to, through the life and passing of Ramey and be comforted. Your words and walk with the Lord are an encouragement to me and my family.
Keith
I can’t begin to state what special people you are. Both John and Ramey’s families are the most wonderful people. We all wish you the very best. God Bless, The Charles’s
Your incredible testimony has given me the opportunity to tell so many people about Jesus! Calvary Chapel of Cleveland is praying for you guys.
“How lovely is Your tabernacle, O Lord of hosts! My soul longs, yes, even faints for the courts of the Lord”
Psalm 84:1-2
Love,
Erin
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You are loved.
John, Judah, Terry, Kathy and Shayna,
I was so overwhelmed last night when I read of Ramey’s homegoing. The tears just flowed and the sadness was there. As I read your entry Jon, I could not help but marvel at how great God is in the comfort He has given Judah and the entire family. Yes we have tears and sadness but to know that Ramey is now fully healed and is HOME gives me that true comfort.
I was going through some pictures just yesterday and I found one of Ramey holding a trophy from the LCA’s choir trip to Hershey Park many years ago. She had the biggest smile on her face and she was running up the stairs to join the choir. Yesterday she joined the heavenly choir that one day we will all be a part of. I can only imagine her smile as she sings with that choir!! Several weeks ago I had the privilege of spending some time with Ramey when she came to Lynchburg. I will always cherish that time with her and most of all those few minutes that she sang HOSANNA for me. Her voice was just as pure and beautiful as ever. Her love for the Lord and her testimony was just so strong and never ever waivered. God certainly chose to use Ramey to reach others for Him and she did just that!!
Our love and prayers are with all of you! I pray God will continue to give you that peace and strength you need during the days ahead. He has been so faithful and good and I know He will continue to lift each one of you up.
Ramey will forever be in our hearts!
Love,
Nadine & Chuck Breen
JOHN AND FAMILY
God has truly blessed us all with knowing Ramey for whatever time she had on this earth her time was complete and the impact that she has made on everyone she touched with her journey will be to her credit. What an amazing welcome she must have had as the Lord rejoiced over her arrival. Praise God and to him be the Glory forever and ever. See you all Saturday you are loved and blessed beyond words.
John,
Thank you so much for sharing your heart, and especially Judah’s dream. I was so amazed when I read that yesterday, it just blew me away! We’ve been able to share this with Izzy, and it is providing some great opportunities for cultivating her heart. We’ve also been sharing Ramey’s story with friends who don’t know Christ, and you are right — God is going to be more glorified through her passing than if He had healed her. What a loving and gracious Abba we have! When I heard the news yesterday I went to Rev. 22, one of my favorite passages on heaven (new heaven/new earth to be specific):
1 Then the angel showed me the river of the water of life, as clear as crystal, flowing from the throne of God and of the Lamb 2 down the middle of the great street of the city. On each side of the river stood the tree of life, bearing twelve crops of fruit, yielding its fruit every month. And the leaves of the tree are for the healing of the nations. 3 No longer will there be any curse. The throne of God and of the Lamb will be in the city, and his servants will serve him. 4 They will see his face, and his name will be on their foreheads. 5 There will be no more night. They will not need the light of a lamp or the light of the sun, for the Lord God will give them light. And they will reign for ever and ever.
How exciting…I can’t wait until we are all there rejoicing together, seeing His face, reigning with Him forever!
We love you guys.
Tim
John,
you are such an amazing person. I am amazed everyday how you can go through this and have the strength to keep updates on Ramey, even on this hard day. You are truely amazing! This I would say, was the hardest week of myself. Won 500 dollars in the lottery, our car broke down, we had to buy a new car, my 15 year old dog died on Friday and then we loose our sweet Ramey, I look up to you for your strength and I have been crying for days over my dog until yesterday. You are right, they are both not gone, they are with god. Our mightly lord knows when our time has come and when we have fullfilled our earthly missions. The last time I saw Ramey was almost 3 years ago an she was so amazed by my rubiks cube, that she bought me a t-shirt (which I wear a lot) and it’s says rubiks addict. It always brings a smile on my face and I am wearing it today in honor of her! I have learned a lot from her. I have learned especially how to be a better sister, how to be a happier, healthier person and how to let go of what others think of me and be myself. I actually have a recording of her, onto which she sang for me when I was learning to play the guitar and after my visit in SC she left me a note on my recorder. She is treuly an amazing person, friend, sister, daughter, wife and mother! My heart aches for Judah! He’s very special, and his dream is an amazing gift from god. I hope you all are able to find some comfort and peace in knowing that Ramey saved many lifes these past few months, by bringing thousands of people closer to god.
God bless you John!!
Sara Nemeth
Our prayers are with your family. Ramey was and continues to be such a bright light!
John and family, All I keep thinking about is the last time that I had talked to Ramey on the phone before either of her surgeries and we were laughing about her getting the picture of all my kids and her saying to one of you, that she was to thank for all of our kids. How right she was. God used her as a vessel to get John and I together. That is something that we will presently and eternally be grateful for. Tears have been flowing since I read on here of her passing on to Heaven. I am so glad she is finally with Jesus, she is rejoicing like never before. However, my heart aches as I am sure all of yours does, because I loved her so much and will miss her so much. I want you all to know that you will be in our familes prayers daily. I love you all and can already see by reading everything on this site that God has his glory and fame spreading to so many people. Give Judah a big hug and kiss from us and all of you as well. No one will ever be or compare to our Ramey. She was one of a kind. Can I just share with you though that Addie our 4 year old reminds us of Ramey. Her free Spirit is so much like Ramey. She isn’t afraid to say what she thinks and just loves life. She at times goes outside and screams to the Heavens, : “I love you Jesus.” Also says often that she misses Jesus. How cool is that? Just wanted to share that because John and I had just been talking about how she is our one child who reminds us of Ramey. So it is kind of like she is living on still with us here. Love you all and wish I could give you all a hug. Paula, John, Brianna, Zachary, Addie, Savannah, and Titus. P.s. I was praying for you all at around 11:30 or 12:00 ar night on the morning of her passing and could not sleep, God just kept urging me to pray for her and you all I thought it was for her healing here on earth, little did I know God was preparing her for her ride up to Heaven. We truly do serve a awesome God.
John and Judah –
I personally did not know Ramey, but had many friends who did. I have heard for years incredible stories of her witness and spirit from Kat and Sunshine. I sit here and weep for your loss, at God’s grace, and of all the lives that Ramey touched while here on this earth and now that she is heaven. Please know you are both in my prayers during this time.
Aimee
Lynchburg
Dear John, Judah, Terry, Kathy and Shayna,
Georgie told me about Ramey’s passing and though I am grieving with you over her loss, it is really heaven’s gain and for that I rejoice with you. I pray that the grace of God will sustain you all during this very difficult time but what a blessing of life Ramey has left to this world. I praise our Awesome, Almighty Father for letting us share in her life for even these short years.
Your faith and strength has been such a testimony to many and
I know that you will continue to share that word through many days to come.
Prayers of many are with you now. My heart and sympathy are with you though I can not be. I encourage you each to continue to rely on the only source of strength and comfort there is – Our Lord Jesus Christ. Peace and comfort be with you.
Your sister in Christ,
Manda
Thank you from the bottom of my heart for sharing Ramey’s life through this site. I have never met her, but received info. about the web site just a few days ago from a friend, and after looking at photos of her, I honestly don’t think I have ever seen anyone looking so peaceful, joyful, and radiant, even during the toughest part of her illness. It has been a huge blessing to me and I feel as if I do “know” her. I sense that she must represent the true meaning of what a “beautiful” woman looks like. I will continue to pray for you, John and Judah, and family members and friends.
May God Bless you and Judah richly.
Kim
John,
Thank you so much for posting on this hard day. My husband Brian and i are a part of the Grace EV Free family here in Lynchburg and have been praying for Ramey and her healing since we heard of her battle with cancer for a few months now. We are good friends with Matt & Gaylyn Pantana and others who know and love Ramey. We were deeply impacted when we read the article about her and saw her video. We began to pray for her healing then.
My father died of brain cancer 4 years ago. He was 50. So,her story is close to my heart.
I am also pregnant with our second child and since hearing about Ramey found out i’m having another girl. We’ve named her Ramy Kathryne. I’m thrilled to know that Ramey’s name will live on in my little girl. I pray she too will have the desire for Jesus to fill her life with love, music and laughter the way Ramey did.
When you visited Grace i stayed after the service to pray for Ramey and layed my hand on her and asked Jesus for healing of her sight and of her cancer. She looked up at me while i prayed, but i had to leave after i did and didn’t introduce myself. I was late for something i’m sure, but i wish i would have stayed. I wish i would have said, “Hi Ramey, i’m Joy. I’m naming my little girl after you, cause you have this great name that means loving and i think you are so great.” I wish i would have told her that, John. Maybe you could tell her for me.
Lord Bless you and your Judah. We will not cease making mention of you in our prayers.
Joy Morykon
Grace, Lynchburg
I can’t resist posting something really neat. I just found out two things about Ramey that I did not know. One is that her favorite flower is a Gerbera Daisy and the other is that her favorite color is red.
I just realized that in my yard blooming today I have two flowers only. One is a red Gerber Daisy and the other is a purple Rose of Sharon. How neat is that???
I looked up the spelling of this type of Daisy and inadvertently found the meaning of this flower. This is amazing: The Gerber Daisy represents purity, beauty, and cheerfulness! Oh Lord, how appropriate and fitting.
Father, I thank You that Ramey’s pure heart, her beauty and her cheerfulness touched so many lives.
John, I want you to know that even thought we haven’t seen you in about 12 years since LU, We are praying hard for you down here in Florida. Your story of faithfulness to God has touched my heart. Keep trusting!!
Mike and Melanie Connell
John, Judah and the Harder family,
Ramey’s family,
When I heard of Ramey passing, just minutes after it happened yesterday, my first thought was Hallelujah!! I was so happy for her!! And that was followed by a deep sadness . . . for myself for her friends and especially for all of you . . .Kathy, Terry, Shayna, John and dear sweet Judah . . . and for those who will never get to meet Ramey in person here on earth and experience her love and light. We know her testimony is still impacting others for Christ and will continue to live on!! Every one of us has been inspired by Ramey in one way or another, that was just how she was. We were inspired by her life and now, in her passing, we are being inspired by your examples of strength and faith and love of Christ, and the Grace and Peace that God has shown all of you . . . even Judah and that you have shared with all of us. Thank you so much for that!!
I wanted to share with you a poem written by my mom. I know it just reiterates everything that you have shared with us all over the last several weeks and months, but it is my favorite of hers, so I wanted to share it anyway.
HE GATHERS EVERY TEARDROP
Regardless of the circumstance,
Regardless of the fear,
Regardless of the pain we bear,
Regardless of the tear,
Our God is ever in control,
Performing as He should,
And He has promised in His word
To work things for our good
But as a loving Father would,
He sometimes lets us cry
To cleanse the hurt out of our heart,
To wash it from our eye.
Yet gently gathers He the tears
Within His hands to stay
Until He turns them into pearls
And gives them back someday.
© 1980 Glenda Fulton Davis
To John and family,
You are all in my thoughts and prayers. Thank you for your words. It is incredible how the Lord has provided such strength in you. I am awed, humbled, and blessed to have known Ramey and to see God’s work. Experience is a dim lamp that only lights the one who bears it. Thank you, thank you, thank you, for sharing you and Ramey’s journey and shining your light of experience on me. I have no idea what else to say…I can only pray, and trust God…like Ramey taught us to.
God is good,
Foust
God bless you at this time We continue to pray for you and your family. Ramie was such a blessing to so many people and God will continue blessings others through her passing. You are an awesome testimony of our wonderful Lord can do in our times of need. God Bless you, The Farmers
And Judah.
Dream.
What an incredible little man.
God is gigantic in him.
In 2002, Mr wife was diagnosed with Cancer (again) and also had to endure 50 radiation treatment, 8 months of chemo-theapy and a brain operation. I still do not know why but God saw fit to keep her here with us awhile longer as she is very healthy now.(and also singing on our praise team at church). I say this… to say that 1 night after her treatments were all done. She Stopped breathing… long enough for me to kneel at her bed and give her back to God. Just as the EMS arrived she awoke. She tells a story of how that time was spent with God and how she did not want to come back….Ramey is there now… Terry (my wife) and I continue to pray a prayer that a missionsary to the Congo taught us… “Thank you Lord, for allowing me to trust you with this….even if You never tell me the reason why.’ Ramey’s work in ministry on this planet is not Done. She has been promoted to an even higher calling and fruits of her ministry will be seen in the years to come thru both her husband and son… WHAT a GIFT from GOD Ramey continues to be…
“Imitate me, just as I imitate Christ.” 1 Corinthians 11:1
Ramey lived it!! I’m so thankful for her example.
John,
I am so sad for you and Judah and the rest of Ramey’s family. I am praying for you all. But I am encouraged by your notes of joyfulness because we all know that Ramey is praising Jesus right now. I can only imagine that God looked at her as she walked through the gates of Heaven and said “Well done, thou good and faithful servant.” I am truly blessed to have known Ramey.
You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Melody Rhodenhizer Whitt
John, Everyone at Sports Plus has you, Judah, and your family in our thoughts and prayers.
John, you, Judah, and all who were close to Ramey are in my thoughts and prayers. I was deeply saddened to hear the news of her passing, yet was heartened to hear the words of praise to God from you and others. I knew Ramey only briefly at Liberty, but remembered her infectious joy, her beautiful spirit, and that light that never ceased to radiate from her. She brought truth, beauty, and goodness to the world, and everyone who knew her is the better for it.
God’s blessings to you and all of Ramey’s loved ones.
Catherina
Sgt Reeves,
Please know that I mourn with you for a life that was well lived. I pray that God gives you strength during these difficult days ahead and that you find comfort in knowing that
Ramey is in a better place. For the scripture says to be absent from the body is to be present with the Lord.
Marisa Lee
Charleston Police Dept, Front Desk
john, i am praying for you and judah and will continue too. i read that ramey had passed yesterday not too long after you had posted and i was at a loss for words. i didn’t know ramey at all back at liberty, i remember seeing her, and you for that matter. but i do remember hearing good things about her and seeing her smiling face. but since following her journey, it didn’t take me long to fall in love with who she was. her life, her perspective, her attitude, her love of people and those around her…it drew me in. i prayed so diligently for her these last several weeks since her second surgery, i ran out of things to say to the Lord. i was determined to petition Him on her behalf as long as i needed to…
i know God holds our lives in His loving hands. i know He loved ramey so much He just had to take her home. i know He knew her death would not go void…it would prove to be most effective in bringing people to Him, even moreso than her complete restoration in this life. but even still, reading yesterday, that she had passed took the breath out of me.
the only thing that made it bareable and somewhat gave me a rejoicing spirit was what you shared regarding judah’s dream. i will never, as long as i live, forget that. what an amazing God we serve, that He loved judah enough, and thought of your little boy enough to go to him, and show him Who had his mommy now and the image of her being fully healed. that moved the earth beneath me. he is at a good, tender age…he will remember it. he will remember her. that is a miracle in and of itself. a week before she was to die…God came and prepared the way. wow. God is good.
i have been so blessed by your commitment to her and the love you have for her. it was no small feat to keep us all up to date, everyday, of ramey’s progress…i commend you for your faith and attitude during this time. instead of keeping her to yourself, you shared her with all of us…even in the last hours of her life. may God bless you richly for that. selfless. that’s how i think of you and i don’t even know you.
i just know ramey’s memorial service is going to be so beautiful and sweet, just like she was. i wish i could be there. i will be thinking of you all the whole day. stay strong. my prayer is that you would find your way into Jesus’ arms.
i keep thinking, “beth, she wouldn’t come back here if you begged her….she would just say, “are you kidding me? please, don’t worry…don’t be sad…look at me….i am totally healed. i made it! this is what we were all practicing for on earth! this is where i was created to be. go. serve the Lord with your whole heart, be Jesus to those who need Him. love, love, love. and i’ll see you when you get here….”
your sister in Christ,
beth hines
I did not know Ramey personally but began praying for her after receiving an email for a prayer request from Liberty University. I’ve been checking in every couple of days to monitor Ramey’s progress and checked in today to learn of her passing. My heart was almost as heavy to learn of her passing as it was when my Dad went home to be with the Lord in November. I felt as though I knew Ramey even though I had never met her. I have prayed for her recovery on several occasions during my morning prayer. I know that we do not always understand why God chooses to heal some and not others, but your posting has encouraged me and absolutely amazed me with the grace and peace that I know can only come from God. I pray that He will continue to wrap you in His arms and give you rest. I know that the loss your family is feeling will get better in time, and as children of God, we can take encouragement from the fact that we will see our loved ones again. Each day that the sun rises is one day closer to being with them and our Blessed Saviour! My prayers are with you and your family.
Dear John and Judah and family,
My prayers are with you at this time and I am so encouraged by your faith and Ramey’s. I count it among the greatest blessings to have known Ramey from a young age, and though I have not met the two of you personally, I’m sure that your spirits are equally full of life, faith, love, and joy as hers was. May God grant you much love and encouragement at this time and as you go on through this life.
Judah, having a son myself, I can’t even express to you the depth and the bigness of your momma’s love for you. We mommas are alike in that way and I know that you will always feel her love with you in a special way, when you pray, when you walk along the way, when you’re with your dad, as you grow older, and as you become a parent yourself. Your mom was a very special woman, chosen by God for many special purposes, and the most special was you! That’s what I would want my Owen to know if I had to leave him today, and I’m sure that your mom feels the same.
Much love to all of you and your family,
Carrie
Dear John,
This is Ben from liberty. I am so proud that I had a chance to know your Ramey. She was one of the first people that I meet at Liberty. Being that she had lived in South Dakota and I was from North Dakota we had a bond. I am so glad that I had the chance to play music with her beautiful voice and get to know her and her amazing smile. You are a very lucky man to have spent so much time with her. She was and still is so inspiring I only wish that I would ahve taken more time to get to know her. I have read so much on this blog and she was truly a woman of God. As a result of yours and her life story I really want to be more of a man of God. For the last 5-6 years i feel like I have been living my life for Ben and I can honestly say that i want to be more like Ramey and John. I have been through a lot and Your story is what I needed to be reminded that living out Jesus is as easy as a big Ramey smile and an open heart to love people. You and your family are so blessed. My only regret is that I could have know your Ramey better. I too can see her just singing her heart out, dancing for the King…no pain…only Joy.
She was a REAL woman of God
Your Friend
Ben Larson
clarahoperecords@hotmail.com
Her sweet voice will be dearly missed but she will be praising our Father forever and ever.
John,
Amanda and I are so sorry for your loss, but what stands out to me is the incredible faith and the attitude you have displayed throughout this whole situation. We are praying for you and Judah that you will continue to have a peace about you during this time of grief. I want you to know that when I first moved to Lynchburg, Ramey was one of the first people to greet me and my sister at church. She showed me kindness from the day one and i have never forgotten that. She had an amazing enthusiasm and joy about her that was very contagious. Saying what a special person she was does not do it justice. Amanda and I will continue to pray for your family.
John,
I am not sure if you remember meeting me and my now 11 year old daughter, Kara, or not, but Ramey was a part of our church’s (Charleston Baptist) “Judgement House” for the past 2 years. Talk about a vision! Ramey was a singing angel in the Heaven scene with us, and had the voice of one. It was truly moving each and every time that a group was to come in our scene-we would pray for each group before and after they entered. We would talk about people we could see that they were moved by the presence of it all. (If you are reading this and don’t have a clue-this is a walk-through drama where a non-Christian and a Christian both die, you see their decisions and ultimately where they spend eternity-Heaven or Hell.) The sense of relief when they entered Heaven was unreal. We would talk for hours about how moving our “Heaven” was, and how it would not compare to our Lord’s Heaven. We could feel the Holy Spirit move among us as we were showing and witnessing to people that the end is real. Who knew that it would be so soon for Ramey. We are trying to wrap our heads and hearts around the fact that she is in the real Heaven that we tried to depict here in a drama. This year’s JH will be unreal-that Ramey is not there with us, her beautiful voice will not be heard. She is singing for the true ONE! I also have to tell you that she was concerned about our family, and encouraged us to be faithful in that my husband would turn his life over to the Lord. Each time he would be coming through the JH, she would ask a special prayer for him. She is one that is like what we all as Christians should strive to be. My Kara is very sad that a friend she knew has passed, and told me just moments ago how she so wants to be like Ramey. God is so good, and I thank Him that he allowed Ramey to touch our lives in such a profound way. I can’t wait for the day I get to hug her again, and we will sing that wonderful song we sang together, “I Can Only Imagine” and not have to imagine any more. Our thoughts and our prayers continue for you and your dear son. She loved you both beyond measure, and would share about that love with us.
Angeline Williams
Charleston, SC
Dear John and Judah,
We had the privilege of meeting you and your precious Ramey in passing one evening. Our son Evan played with Judah at your parents house and we just want to tell you we’ve labored with you in prayer these past months. Words cannot express our joy in seeing where God Himself has taken you in this journey. We are so sorry for your loss and will continue to lift you and your family and Ramey’s family in prayer. Heaven will be so much sweeter as you will see her face again. May you be encouraged by the arms of our Savior and we are praying for you evermore….In Christ’s Love, Carlos and Alissa Kalczuk (friends of Steve & Carissa, Al and Meg, etc.)
Hi John! I wanted to say hi and tell you I am so sorry. You, Judah and Ramey have been in our thoughts so much lately. Please know Jeff and I are here for you and Judah. And I can tell you a day wont go by that we dont go visit with Ramey across the street.
Love, Stacy Robertson
John,
We wanted to express our deepest sympathy to you and Judah. I read your piece about Judah’s dream and it swelled my eyes with tears, but it also filled my heart with JOY!
I am so sorry that we will not be able to travel to the service this weekend as I have to work. We have such great memories of Ramey, as y’all let us into your church as friends of God.
I still remember how bummed we were that last Thanksgiving I had in Charleston, that we had to work that night, and your family graciously opened your home to us for a wonderful dinner.
I know you are at peace with her passing because she is in the greatest of any place, we could only imagine at this point. Whenever it does happen, the reunion with her will be so great!
We love you John and you will always be a brother to me! Please call us anytime you can.
Love,
The Wilson’s
I should know what to say….but I don’t.
I do know that I will never forget the fervent hope and complete peace that Ramey provided me with last summer at the cookout at Steve & Tessa’s. Thoughts of her smile that day, her words, and her prayer she said with me have and will continue to remain in my heart forever.
“I am weaker than I look but stronger than I feel.”
I do not know Ramey or her family personally, but learned of her through a friend — Carrie Rountrey Jones. My brother in law has also been fighting cancer, and I have been following Ramey’s progress as well. Your steadfast faith in the Lord through all of Ramey’s treatments has been inspiring. Our family will continue to pray for Ramey’s family.
John, Judah, the Reeves and Harder Families,
Praise the Lord for the work that He has done in our families. Praise the Lord for the changes that He has wrought in our lives and the time that He has given us together on this earth. We have only one life to serve Him, to sacrifice ourselves, and to minister to those in need. Thank our gracious Father for the precious heart that He gave Ramey.
My heart is broken for you all. I do not understand why God has brought me overseas during such a time of crisis, but you are all in my prayers. Just as He brought us Ramey and then took her home, I have had to trust that He also has me in Austria as part of His perfect plan. I am sorry that I did not sooner write to you all, but I could not understand or express any of my emotions. But let us Praise the Lord for this fiery trial He has given us, Praise the Lord! His strength is made perfect in our weakness. John, I am praying for you. I can’t wait to see you again. And we will see Ramey soon enough.
In Christ
Lucas
I am so thankful to have just a small glimpse into ramey’s life through this website. her life has made such an impact on me. it is so neat to see how she truly praised the Lord in every area. i am so blessed and yet i seem to find MANY things to complain about daily. i will never forget her sweet heart. it is amazing to read comments on here from people that only knew of her as i did from reading this blog. what an incredible impact she has had. thankyou for allowing all of us to share in your lives. i am praying for all of you!
I was one of the ICU nurses that took care of Ramey during her stay. I can speak for many in our unit that she and the Reeves and Harder families made an incredible impact on all of us! My faith has been challenged to walk closer to God and to be a stronger testimony and light for Him. Ramey was so beautiful and although I never got to hear her voice in person, I loved caring for her and as Lisa posted earlier, we all fought over who would get the priviledge of taking care of her. We loved her and your families and the many wonderful friends who came.
On hearing the news of her passing, we were all sad and teary. My heart was broken for John and Judah especially. Then I read John’s post of Judah’s dream and the positive outlook they were both having. We printed off that post and showed it to our fellow coworkers and doctors. Just in speaking of it to several nurses, doctors and respiratory therapists, it would bring tears to there eyes and mine. They were amazed to see how God really had prepared Judah and to also see what an amazing peace that God has given John and all of you.
You have all impacted our hospital staff who came in contact with Ramey or with you all. Your faith is incredible and inspiring. This is Christianity!
My family in WV has also been inspired as I had shared Ramey’s story and website with them weeks ago.
May the Lord bless you and keep you and may His face continue to shine on you.
Jessica
2 Corinthians 5:8 (KJV)
We are confident, I say, and willing rather to be absent from the body, and to be present with the Lord.
And we all know that Ramey IS present with the Lord!!
John, I was so sad to hear the news. Ramey was an amazing person — such an alive and vibrant spirit. She will be missed. You and Judah will be in my thoughts and prayers.
John & family — I, too, was blessed to have met Ramey through Judgement House at Charleston Baptist in the fall of 2006 and 2007. I led groups through the different scenes of the drama each night, and I was always excited when we finally got to “heaven.” Ramey’s beautiful smile and her voice singing “I Can Only Imagine” have remained with me. I began following her story when I heard about the cancer through others at church. And, while I was so sad to hear the news on Wed., I immediately realized that Ramey wasn’t imagining any longer. She now knows exactly what it is like to be with Jesus, face to face. Thank you for continuing to share your faith, your sorrow, and your joy, as a witness to all of the mighty power of our Lord. Continuing to pray for you!
Dear John and Judah,
Ramey has been and will always be such an inspiration to
all of us. You and Ramey were their for Steve whenever he
needed you. Ramey was like a big sister to him and treated
him like family. It’s so hard to put into words what she mean’t
to us…we will miss her so much.
We know that she is singing to Jesus now and we will see
her someday soon! What a joy she must bring to heaven!
Our prayers will continue for all of you, for strength and
comfort, it gives us peace to see that the Lord has
given you a sense peace and joy that Ramey would
want you to have.
We thank you Lord for Ramey Reeves!!! Amen!
John,
Dena and I would like to convey our deepest gratitude for all that you and Ramey did for us over the last several months. Even though the both of you were going through something that would almost be unbearable to imagine, you reached out to us and showed us what true faith really is. There are no words that would adequately be able to describe how moved my wife and I were with your prayers and spiritual guidance. We are deeply saddened by Ramey’s passing; however, it is a beautiful thing to know that she will be watching over you and Judah, and there will come the day that all of you will be united again in the Kingdom of Heaven. Our thoughts and prayers continue to be with you and your family.
Michael and Dena
To Ramey’s wonderful family,
May GOD bless and keep all of you. I know that Ramey is singing the Lord’s praises in heaven right at this moment. I never had a conversation with Ramey to know her love for GOD but as soon as I stepped into her room to care for her I could FEEL it!!!! What a wonderful and comforting feeling it was. The feeling that only our Almighty GOD can provide. It was a blessing to meet ALL of you. You guys are amazingly blessed!!!
Yours in Christ,
Suzanne
Dear John & Judah,
May the Lord continue to work in and through each of you always, as your family’s testimony and Ramey’s legacy lives on. Your heartfelt letter above and the various on-line accounts I have read concerning the trials and tribulations you fought through alongside Ramey are an amazing encouragement to us all. I pray blessings upon each of you for the tremendous faith you have displayed throughout the process. May His peace that surpasses all understanding remain with you eternally as Ramey enjoys her many treasures in Heaven in the unfathomable presence of God and his legions of angels whom watch over you even now.
Hey John,
I am not sure if you remeber me but I am good friends with Sunshine and knew you guys through her during the Matt Beckler days. I am so sorry for your loss. Ramey was such a sweet girl and always brighten up a room when she entered. it My wife, kids, and I have been praying for her and for you guys for some time now and pray now for the God of all comfort to rest upon you. May God bless you in these difficult days. Love, Mike and Amy Summy and our three kids.
I’m sitting here staring at the computer at 3:30am because I cannot sleep. Heartburn has kept my body awake, but your story has awakened my heart and mind. I want to tell you something of how deeply God has spoken to me through your story, but there’s so much I’m not sure just what to say.
First, let me express my deepest condolences. I rejoice with you that Ramey is sitting face to face with our Father singing her heart out to Him. I also know that it doesn’t lessen the sting of her absence. I can’t imagine the crazy mix of emotions you must be feeling right now. Judah, I know you miss your mom. You are a blessed child to have her for a mother. My heart goes out to you and my prayers are with you. John, to be without your dearest companion… I’m not sure I could handle losing my husband with as much grace and maturity as you have shown.
I was an acquaintance of Ramey’s while at Liberty. We ran in the same circles, so I got to experience the joy of hearing her sing from time to time. I regret that I let fear and immaturity keep me from getting to know her better. I feel that I missed out on the opportunity to have a wonderful friend.
Since I barely know Ramey I didn’t keep in touch with her. I just happened to see Ben Larson’s post on myspace yesterday. I know that it was God’s direction because I almost never look at myspace anymore & my husband had logged in, so I glanced at it. Then I saw Ben’s post & learned the difficult news. All day yesterday I watched the video, read the news articles & blogs, & listened to her song when I could. Thank you for being so open & vulnerable with your story. Because of your willingness to share I have been greatly impacted by Ramey’s life. Through her testimony God is moving in my heart & I have committed to embracing God, life, my family, friends, and everyone else He puts in my path in without barriers. In the past I have put up a lot of walls that have taken a lot of joy out of life, but no longer. Now I relish life and am working to remove all the hindrances that keep me from enjoying life to the fullest. I am choosing the abundant life by enjoying the life God has given to me. I also commit to be a stronger witness for the gospel and a better servant of His Kingdom.
Again, thanks for your willingness to share your story. May the God of all comfort be with you through the days ahead.
In Christ,
Stephanie
John, Judah, Kathy, Terry, and Shayna,
We are so sorry to hear the news of Ramey’s earthly life ending, but rejoice with you that she is now totally healed. Our hearts go out to you all and pray for God’s perfect peace to overtake you all. May you feel the Father’s love for you, and be comforted by the Holy Spirit. May the Prince of Peace calm your hearts and minds and give you rest. You are all in our prayers as you, yourselves begin to heal.
With all our love,
Mary and Jeff Rich (Friends from Gallatin, TN)
John,
Chad contacted me about the death of Ramey. My wife and I have been saddened since. Our prayers have included you, Judah, and your family.
John, the thing that impressed me most about you when we worked in Team 7 was your unconditional love for Jesus. That love is being tested now and I have no doubt will be stronger then ever. May the Lord continue to give you strength in these troubled times.
God Bless,
Steve Blasky, Detroit, Mi.
John, Judah and family members,
Ramey and I were at LCA in the choir together, the “Young believers” at TRBC, and then we sang at Grace EVF in Lynchburg on the worship team for several years together. What a beautiful, sweet spirit and a life of radiance and grace. She’s even more radiant now.
We are weeping with you and rejoing with you also. I envy Ramey as she gets to see all my sweet babies in heaven and hold them before I do (due to miscarriages). It is hard being here on earth knowing that you have precious people you love in Heaven. My husband and I pray for grace and hope and strength every day and we are praying the same for you all.
“May the peace of the Lord Christ go with you, wherever He may send you, may He guide you through the wilderness, protect you through the storm, may he bring you home rejoicing at the wonders he has shown you, may he bring you home rejoicing, once again into our doors.” – A song & prayer from the Celtic book of prayer – pg19.
We praise the Lord for Judah’s dream. What a gracious Father we have. He is Merciful and full of lovingkindness. Always hang on to those special dreams and visions and words of encouragement that the Lord gives you.
“May the Father of Life pour out His grace on you; may you feel His hand in everything you do and be strengthened by the things He brings you through – this is my prayer for you. May the Son of God be Lord in all your ways; may He shepherd you the length of all your days, and in your heart may He receive the praise: this is my prayer for you.” (Celtic bk of prayer pg. 292)
Love, hugs and rich blessings to you all!
Charity
John and family,
It was so good to see you today John and give you a big hug. You handled yourself so well. I will never forget that image of you standing up and walking in front of Ramey’s casket and stretching out your arms to God and singing his praises. It will stay with me forever.
I came home to learn that Ramey’s story has gone global. People are reading about her in France and Europe and have been seriously touched and moved by her faith in God.
I will never forget today or you and Ramey and the tremendous impact she has had on me and my family.
We love you guys.
Thank you thank you thank you. I am more blessed and encouraged than you’ll EVER know by this. God know’s I needed to read this today. May God Bless you abundantly more than all you could ever ask for or even imagine.
I, too, was a Judgement House guide and heard Ramey sing in the Heaven scene countless times. Her face radiated hope and joy each and every time. She touched many lives in that ministry. And today she sings for an audience of One!
Your family has been an amazing testimony to so many. You have walked this road with so much grace and given so much glory to the Father. You are in our prayers.
I just heard of the news of Ramey’s passing. I had the pleasure of caring for her with her after her second surgery on the neuro surgery step down floor. She was a pleasure to care for. She wore a bright smile every time I enetered the room. She shared stories with me and referred great books to read. She and her family made me feel like were long time friends. She had a genuine heart. I will not forget her.